Growing up..

Anyway, just the other day, I was talking to my dear friend and we realised how some people never got out of the "bitchy" period. What do I mean by that?

You know, especially for girls, there'll be this period of time when you're growing up, that you speak with snappy tones and evil words. It happens a lot when you're in a girls' school. All girls environment tend to make you bitchy. HAHAaa.. I know, 'cos I was from one.

That's part of growing up. Of course not all girls will do that. But some, they get suck into this thing, which they feel is very cool and attractive. By putting others down, helps to hide the insecurities and makes them feel like they better off than others. At the age of 13 to 16, it's pretty normal. We know most people grow out of it. But there are many who still do it. Bitchiness becomes part of them.

So, I admit, I was slightly one of them. Slightly because it never haunted me for too long. And I felt guilty after being bitchy. It wasn't my cup of tea man. I can be quite sarcastic, but mostly unintentional. Don't like to hurt people, because I don't want people to hurt me that way either. I'm glad, that I didn't turn out even more monstrous than who I am now. Hahaa. I don't like to talk when I'm angry or upset, knowing that I speak words that hurt.

Anyway, my point is, stop being bitchy. I'm sure it's definitely not your cup of tea too. We're not created that way. It's not cool. You have friends, probably because they're like you and deep down they really dislike that part of you. And what's bad is that, they hurt you with those snappy words that you use on other people too. What's the point. What's the point of being loud and mean and intimidating, when ultimately you just keep fooling yourself and hurting people around you. You're still as insecure deep down. Probably weaker than before. It's like you've never grown up, never left your growing up days behind you.